A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


Have you ever found yourself in a deep forest full of sweet fruits yet wild animals are on the prowl? Such is the condition where you need to break a spell. The danger that looms might be unknown to you unless you are very careful. You therefore need a lot of keenness. Be wise in your dealings and know that things are not always as they seem.

The most common type of spell is that of relationships. When you fall in love with someone, you feel like they are the most entire beings in the planet such that you cannot do without them. In most cases, you become so vulnerable to them that they can mistreat you as much as they want. When the second party realizes that individuals are helpless before them, they can use this as a scapegoat to play with your feelings and emotions.

The most surprising reality to come into terms with is that when you are under a spell, others who will realize it. However, on your part it will seem like everything is normal. All the attempts of your family members and friends to convince you will fail. You will feel that they do not understand you or are not happy with your lucky situation.

A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.

Sometimes we feel that we know ourselves so much that we do not give a damn about what anybody says. However, its quite regrettable that we fail to understand that it is the observer who can see where the problem is. The wisest move therefore, is for us to listen more than we speak. Once we have listened, we should put what we have heard to deep contemplation before giving a decisive response.

Listening to advise is a crucial step in disentangling yourself from an entanglement. Being in control can wait when it comes to such a time. Give a listening ear and ponder about the information before you react to it. Shame is not as painful as losing yourself worth. You can go through it with time. Pride compromises you dignity if you take it too far. You better suffer shame and remain with a long lasting reputation.

Sometimes our decisions can have some dire consequences. This does not mean that we compromise and give in to foolish demands. Total freedom comes when one cannot suffer manipulation from any possible source. Even your spouse should not be trusted when it comes to some matters. In a crucial situation painful decisions have to be made. Trust needs to be earned and not only demanded.

No one is wise enough to escape a spell. Be vigilant and alert at all times. Evaluate all the circumstances in which you take part to assure yourself that none is manipulative. Anything that you find yourself doing with the full awareness that it is wrong needs deeper scrutiny.




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